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melinda1974 Profile Information

Not another cog in the wheel
Age 37 From Terre Haute, Indiana -
Woman Seeking A Man

Basic Information

I Can Speak  
English, Other
I Would Describe Myself As  
I am complicated, like most people. I don't know how to describe myself because I'm always evolving. I am silly, sweet, careing, excentric, artistic, creative, kind, scatter brained, deep (on occasion), adventurous and shy. I like to think of myself as being apart from the herd. I don't know if I really am but I like to think so. ;) Currently I am working hard to save back for school in CA next year. I'm not your adveradge woman. I love anything to do with learning. I'm not a "frilly" kind of gal. I don't own stuffed animals or ANYTHING pink. I prefer digging in the dirt looking for fossils to going and getting my nails done (truth is 1/2 the time I have very very short nails or they are covered with paint). I don't know how to take compliments. I watch open heart surgery while eating my dinner (NOT EVERY NIGHT...just when discovery has something worth watching). I preffer to use herbal or home remidies than taking medicine. I am a do-it-yourself kind of person and I'm NOT fond of shopping. Being in large crowded places makes me nervous so I tend to avoid them. I tend to give too much of myself. I'm flawed in a million ways and all I can say is that I'm working on changeing those things I don't like about myself. I want to be a good person but sometimes I make mistakes. I don't believe in blaming others for things that are my fault. I stand and fall on my own two feet. lol, ok I've made myself out to be...human. I don't want to be a super hero and I'm not looking for one.
Sign  
Gemini

Appearance & Situation

My Body Type Is  
Big And Beautiful
My Height Is  
5' 9
My Eyes Are  
Brown
My Ethnicity Is  
Native American, Caucasian, Other
My Marital Situation Is  
Divorced
I Have Kids  
No
I Want Kids  
Not Sure
My Best Feature Is  
Eyes
Body Art  
Other
My Hair Is  
Dark Brown
I Have One Or More Of These  
Cat, Dog
Willing To Relocate  
Yes

Status

My Education Level Is  
Some College
My Current Employment Status Is  
Full-time
My Speciality Is  
Art / Music / Literature
My Job Title Is  
Freelance artist with various side jobs.
I Make This Much In A Year  
$30,000 To $44,999
I Live  
With Roomate(s)
At Home  
It Gets A Bit Crazy Sometimes
I'm A Smoker  
Yes - Trying To Quit
I Drink  
Yes - Socially

Taste

On Tv, I Always Watch  
Cartoons, Documentaries, Movies
My Top 3 Tv Shows Are  
The Masters of Horror, Bones, & Buffy. I'll explain if asked
When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A  
Action, Science Fiction, Comedy, Romance, Animation, Horror, Thriller
My Top 3 Movies Are  
Army of Darkness, Bubba Hotep, Silence of the Lambs
When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To  
Rock, Metal, Electronic, Pop, Classical, Blues, Jazz, Industrial, New age, Ambient, Soul, Reggae, Folk, Punk
My Top 3 Musical Artists Are  
Rage against the Machine, Tenasious D, Phish
When I Read, I Always Read  
Ancient, Classic, Comic, Computers, Fantasy, Fiction, History, Horror, Humor, Mystery, Nature, Philosophy, Political, Poetry, Religious, Satire, Science, Science Fiction
My Top 3 Books Are  
The complete works of Shakepere, The Illiad, The Bull from the sea
My Idea Of Fun Is  
I love to do research on any given topic. I like to think I'm a creature of logic but I'm terribly silly at times. I have an odd scense of humor and I love to laugh. I play D&D because I love to write and in a scense it's character development. I also enjoy spending time with my friends and just being silly. I work most of the time but I always make sure that I have game night off. I love to spend time with children. I am a part time nanny and I have 2 nieces and 3 nephews who I adore. I'm a kid at heart.

Personality

Back In High School, I Was A  
Outcast
My Social Behavior Is  
Shy, Friendly, Flirtatious, Outgoing, Strange
My Interest And Hobbies Are  
Arts & Crafts, Reading, Learning, Music, Movies, Games, Photography, Cooking, Gardening, Camping, Playing Cards
My Idea Of A Great Time Is  
Trying New Things, Reading A Book, Going To A Museum
An Ideal First Date Would Be  
I don't know. I guess it depends. I love the city but I love the country too. I guess I would like to start out at a coffee house and talk. If we're compatable then maybe a movie (anything but War movies, I don't like how they make me feel after). I like to talk. EXSP. when I'm nervous (I'm shy and I get nervous arround new people). This is sort of an advantage because I seem more outgoing than I am. Inside I'm mortified at the fact I'm giving my life story out like pamplets on a street corner.
I've Always Wanted To Try  
Archeaology and I have. Being a carnival worker (because my grand parents were) and I did for a very short while. I want to do character makeup for movies and television. I think it would be interesting, fun, and a practical use of my talents so I'm going to school for it next year. I tend to actually try the things that I want to try. I seem a bit chaotic because of it but I can't think of a better way to spend ones time here than to do those things you want to in life and help others to do the same.
My Friends Describe Me As Being  
Friendly, Goofy, A Flirt

Views

My Religion Is  
Other
I Attend Services  
Never
My Political Views Are  
Very Liberal
My Goal In Life Is  
To rule the world and to do character makeup FOR Bruce Campbell.
My Kind Of Humor Is  
Campy, Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Friendly, Goofy, Raunchy

Looking for

What Do You Find Attractive?  
Intelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Empathy, Boldness, Spontaneity, Flirtatiousness, Wit, Thoughtfullness
What Do You Look For?  
Someone fun, intelligent, and creative. I'm attracted to talent and charisma. I love rotten people (they are fun to be arround). I don't know that I'm really looking for a relationship so-to-speak. I guess in a scense we all are but I want to be friends first. I think that's importaint. I don't date much becaue most the men I meet are only out for sex. Don't get me wrong sex is nice but i'm sort of old fassioned and I think sex is better with someone you care about. I'm looking for an honest open person to share my ideas with and feel that connection with. I want someone who is a person of conviction but not so ridged that they can't think holisticly. I want someone who can meet me on my level and not be affraid to tell me if I'm being a jerk, dense, or whatever. I'm a strong willed woman looking for a stronger willed man.
What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?  
Friend, Intimate